I think you did whatever suited you...when you bothered to interact with them.

[ Zemo comes from wealth, and that brings a certain silver-spoon upbringing and mentality. But he also hails from a largely war-torn region of Europe, where small villages and tight-knit communities are the norm.

Zemo likely spent much of his time indoors with tutors, but learned to interact more in secondary school or university (if he went). ]

I thank Your Grace for socializing with a commoner like myself.